Since when did social media sites become the universal destination for complaining? In order to keep your reputation, and perhaps your updates on your friends’ feeds, steer clear from these Facebook mishaps:
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Posting Statuses about personal information:
Not to be mean, but I’m sure the Facebook world doesn’t want to know about your ongoing divorce with your husband or wife. That’s a little too personal for the Facebook world. People start asking questions, talk behind your back, and then you’re left with a huge rumor going around that has absolutely no relevance to what is actually going on. Better yet, if you don’t want people asking about what’s going on, don’t post things! It’s absolutely ridiculous when your status says, “Had the worst night ever” and then you refuse to tell your friends why if they ask. If it’s secret, don’t put it in the most social place ever.
Petty fights that mean absolutely nothing:
Recently my 13-year-old cousin tried “breaking up” with her best friend over Facebook in front of hundreds of other friends. The reason? Her friend hadn’t texted her all day. That night she posted, “Best friends don’t last forever. Good bye.” Of course my tolerance for this annoying post made me lash out in wiser older cousin advice. I told her and all of her friends one Facebook no-no: NEVER fight over Facebook. It’s going to be on there forever and you’re going to look back at yourself when you’re older and think "what was I doing?!"
Posting pictures of your obnoxious night out:
This isn’t just for you college girls and boys. This one is out to everyone on Facebook. I know how much I love waking up every morning and seeing pictures of you with your undergarments hanging out or a massive mountain of beer cans. You’re cool…NOT.
If you want to keep your reputation (or perhaps change it), I’d be careful of what pictures you post. Your boss, teachers, potential employers and family members can see these. I have heard some bosses say they do like to see you having fun, but some pictures are just too risky. Like they usually say, if one of your family members would be ashamed when they see it, or if your pictures could double as ads for beer or Girls Gone Wild, I probably wouldn’t post it.
Posting Every 2 minutes on someone’s wall:
Dear boyfriend and girlfriend/best friends forever,
We get that you love one another, but isn’t seeing each other face-to-face the point of dating or having a best friend? Facebook PDA is becoming way too disgusting and I don’t enjoy seeing your 5 hour long exchanges on my newsfeed about how much you love one another. This is only going to leave me thinking you’re highly annoying, immature and socially inept. Don’t be surprised if I unfriend you or block you from my newsfeed.
Annoyed and Disgusted,
Me
Bragging:
There are some friends who are going to be very proud of their accomplishments and want to let the whole world know, but we don’t want to feel like you are looking down upon us. Facebook shouldn’t be a stomping ground for you to make all of your friends feel bad about themselves. Facebook should be a place where you share experiences, connect and highlight the good parts of your life, always keeping in mind that other people will see it.
Horrible Grammar:
Well, well, well. My favorite don’t ever.
Recently I was on Facebook and noticed a post. In this conversation a discussion came up about scholarships and college. The reason I was so annoyed was because scholarship was spelled incorrectly and the school of attendance was misspelled. Imagine if your pending school saw this post and saw that you could not spell the name of the school OR scholarship. Isn’t your new school supposed to be your pride and joy AND didn’t you just spend kindergarten through 12th grade learning how to spell? Hmmm…America, I think we have a problem on our hands.
Constant Complaining:
I get that you’re in high school and want to get out. As Dave Letterman says, “Been there, done that.” However, because I’ve been through that, I’m blatantly going to tell you how it is. You’re complaining on Facebook, so I’m going to put my two cents in.
Backlashing:
I have to admit, and as you’ve probably noticed, I get annoyed at many Facebook etiquette flaws. However, I’d probably save myself a lot of time by just ignoring these people. If you are going to give advice to someone, don’t look mean or sarcastic doing it. Tell the truth in the nicest, most optimistic way possible. Don’t make it look like your life is an upset, too.
Let me know what your Facebook rules are!